Module 7, Session 1
Introduction to Counseling Skills in the Classroom
Lecture Notes and Directions for Activities
Characteristics of Effective
Teachers A statement to ponder: "Teaching is counseling and counseling is
teaching." Each role informs the other. Teachers often find themselves dealing not
just with the academic but also with the personal concerns of their students.
Counselors often find themselves needing instructional skills to assist
an individual with desired change.
Teachers use interpersonal skills in the classroom everyday. Some are
effective. Some are ineffective at helping students to be successful in
both academic and personal goals. None would argue that students' personal
and academic needs are intricately related. Students want teachers who
are respectful, warm, friendly and understanding, and who genuinely care
about them. These teacher qualities enhance students' learning. Characteristics of Effective
Counselors Effective counselors are those who view themselves as capable of helping
others to change by empowering them. They view students as capable of
personal growth. Moreover, they have the capacity to understand alternative
viewpoints and the worldview of others. They have been specially trained
in communication skills and counseling interventions. They are consistent
and trustworthy.
Effective counselors also are self-aware. They are keenly aware of their
perceptions though they attempt to not allow their perceptions to dominate
their interactions with others. Effective counselors attempt to understand
and accept a student's viewpoint regardless of the student's behavior.
They are respectful of others' realities and are able to differentiate
their own realities from those of their students. They understand that
they may disclose but never impose their values on their students. The Teacher/Counselor Many teachers are naturally helpers. Some teachers can benefit from training
in counseling skills and interventions. All teachers can benefit from
intentional training in interpersonal skills and counseling methods.
Teachers are busy. They can be annoyed by student's behavior. They can
judge student's behavior to be irremediable without careful analysis.
They can ignore the relationship between student's personal and academic
needs. They can protest that additional training is unnecessary. These
are all potential barriers to using effective counseling behaviors in
the classroom.
The benefits of applying interpersonal skills and counseling methods in
the classroom are numerous. It takes no longer to listen effectively than
to listen ineffectively. Responding effectively to students who are impulsive
will put them at ease and help them to adjust to the classroom. Avoiding
the assumption that students are deliberately disruptive may sometimes
allow them to modify their behavior and feel success in school. Students
will perform better in class when they feel that teachers understand them
and will attempt to help them with their problems. Helping students to
clarify their problems and move to solutions will benefit the student
directly and improve the learning environment as a result of healthier
learners. Moreover, as the teacher effectively models interpersonal skills,
students will adopt them. These interpersonal skills are the foundation
for effective problem solving and social skills training for students.
Teachers who are trained in interpersonal communication and counseling
interventions can effectively manage the complicated task of enhancing
students' learning and personal growth.
Interpersonal communication and counseling interventions may be most helpful
in alternative education settings. Students with mild to moderate disabilities
often have deficits in social and emotional behavior and difficulty in
affect and motivation. Teachers who are specially trained in counseling
behaviors can effectively help these students to express their feelings,
change their behaviors, and increase their success both personally and
academically. Activity 1. Insert activity 1 about here. Emphasize the importance
of sharing opinion and not simply recalling statements in the lecture.
Students should explore their own perceptions of the role of helping in
the classroom. If time permits, and/or if students are working in a large
group, it would be helpful to encourage them to talk about their perceptions
in a small group. Students may look for similarities and differences in
their opinions. They may also generate examples of the pros and cons of
using counseling skills in the classroom. The Culturally Skilled Teacher/Counselor Activity 2. (Activity 2 provides a framework for the following discussion
on cross-cultural helping.) It is important in helping others that you
consider their culture. First, it is important to examine your own culture.
What are the behaviors, feelings, actions, and values that are important
in your views of teaching and learning? List several words without talking
out loud about them. It may be helpful to reflect on your own educational
experience. Examine your values carefully. How did you come to value these
ideas about teaching and learning? What happens when students have different
values than yours? [Culturally skilled counselor/teachers know
]
- Culture shapes our behaviors, feelings, actions, and values
- Dignity is preserved when culture is preserved
- Cross-cultural relationships are likely to involve miscommunication
and misjudging
- Inconsideration of students' culture results in failure of helping
- Objectives for students from culturally different cultures should
be relevant for that student
Teachers who have an understanding of students' cultures will understand
their behavior better and be able to handle their behavior in the classroom.
Every action that a child exhibits in school can be traced to their culture,
that is, their values, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, and actions. Knowledge
of cultures that are different from your own also helps to challenge the
negative assumptions that we sometimes make of persons from other cultures.
[Discussion of different cultures is beyond the scope of this presentation.
However, many helpful books are available to learn about helping others
from cultures that are different from your own. Understanding culture
of those from other cultures can help you to successfully understand the
behavior of that person and to be a more effective helper. African American,
Native American, Asian American, and Hispanic/Latino American are just
a few of the many cultures that you can learn about. (Provide a list of
books here)].
Unfortunately, it is often that we make inaccurate judgments and ineffectively
communicate with those who are from different cultures than our own. It
is difficult to challenge your assumptions. We all want to think that
we are impartial, unbiased, and objective with our students. WE ARE NOT.
NONE OF US ARE. To be an effective helper to students, you must always
challenge your assumptions about students. Activity 3. Generate a list of as many behaviors, values, and attitudes
that teachers would like for students to exhibit in the classroom. Examine
the list carefully. What are the students attributes that you value? Why
do you think that you value those attributes? How many of these attributes
that teachers desire in their students are culturally determined? Discuss
how they are culturally determined. For example, students from the Asian
American culture may be more likely to avoid eye contact although this
is considered "friendly" and "respectful" by Western
culture. Students who are from families who live in poverty do not value
and experience discrimination as a way of life may behave in ways that
helpers from the majority culture view as "unmotivated" or "lazy"
in comparison to students who believe that school is a means of succeeding
in their goals.
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